• If I knew I could feel however I wanted, what would I choose?

• If I knew I wasn’t going to feel anxiety, guilt, shame, or regret, which option would I prefer?

• If I knew I could feel proud, happy, and confident with any decision I made, which would I choose?

• If I knew it didn’t really matter which I chose—that it wouldn’t impact my feelings or well-being—which one sounds more fun?

The truth is that, under all the fear and anxiety, you know what you want.